Taking Responsibility for Healthy Progress
For the past few days, I’ve been taking an inventory of my life. I guess living with a chronic illness will make you do that.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m not feeling sorry for myself. I guess I was feeling like I needed to take inventory of what I’ve accomplished and what I can accomplish, and how I can make the latter a reality. It’s not an easy task, and I say “task” because if not properly vetted, the effort can become a chore. It’s something no one would think about until it affects them and they witness their lives slowly draining of ambition.
So I’m puttering around the house doing some familiar things that remind me of when life was easier before my first spontaneous pneumothorax, or collapsed lung. To address the elephant in the room, no matter how well I feel, sarcoidosis challenges my thinking, which challenges my abilities. But as we used to say in South Philadelphia, “Don’t fall for the okie-doke!”
In other words, “Don’t sell yourself short!”
While taking this inventory, I’ve come across all of the various video projects I started but didn’t finish. I use part of my basement as my makeshift video studio, and in it I saw all of the projects I’d worked on over the years. I also paid close attention to the ones I had started but didn’t finish. This made me quite distressed, especially after putting things into perspective.
It’s been 1,721 days since my first spontaneous pneumothorax and 1,440 days since my second. Once I felt better, I promised myself that I would try to achieve every endeavor I wanted to do. I was focused and determined to do so. But as usual, life got in the way, only this time I also got in my own way, constantly worrying if a pneumothorax was going to happen again.
I prayed and promised that I would make a complete comeback, and so far I’ve only reached half of my mark. All things considered, I should be much further ahead than I am now. I can thank the pandemic for keeping me worried and stagnant for two years.
With that said, I had to reinforce that I have to stay out of my way! I think when we’re living with a chronic illness, we tend to trip ourselves up by second-guessing our abilities based on our health. We tend to worry about tomorrow and not fully enjoy today.
Before and after I was diagnosed with sarcoidosis, I believed the world was mine. I was making moves and aspiring as a video producer and editor. In January 2017, my career took a detour, and then on Aug. 11, my whole world changed, thanks in part to pulmonary sarcoidosis.
Over these last four years, I got in my way again, this time by constantly focusing on my condition and not continuing to hone my skills. I started doubting myself, and subsequently, I have a few unfinished projects, not to mention missed opportunities and unkept promises. In that little bit of time, though, I learned a lot about myself, and I again found my appreciation for life.
There is a silver lining.
The first thing I came to grips with is that maybe I’m the problem in this. My abilities to do the things I love haven’t changed one bit. They may have been compromised, but I still have the desire and the skills (most of them) to accomplish my goals. It’s up to me to bring those skills out so everyone who doubted my abilities, even myself, can see that they still exist. No matter how dry the soil is, perennials still come back and bloom, and so will I. Like perennials, I’ll just show you when I’m blooming.
I encourage everyone to take a personal inventory of their lives and dare you to be honest about staying out of your way. I know I have to make a few lifestyle changes myself, but that won’t stand in the way of my progress. We all need a wake-up call. The one thing to remember is we control our thoughts, not the other way around.
Inventory your life, appreciate your skills and abilities, don’t sell yourself short, and stay out of your way. There are too many folks willing to stand in your way of progress. Don’t be the one holding yourself back!
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